Wednesday, January 13, 2021

Notes to our younger and more excitable selves

 

I am sitting on our recently constructed ‘Summer’ deck (yes, we also have a winter deck to take the best advantage of our seasonal vagaries) while the family are asleep with an early morning coffee to get the body going. As it is want to do, my brain has wandered off into a bout of reflection as I gaze over the vineyards and olives (doesn’t matter where I sit, the views are truly magnificent); and I have some thoughts/wisdoms (?) that I wish I had known before we commenced this crazy venture. Six years ago now, and no sign of wilting enthusiasm (a very good thing), although we do want to finish now.

Here are a few of the things that I think are important if you are going to build your own home – and you have only ever done anything else. Some of them we fell into quite naturally, but some are much, much later realisations. These words of questionable wisdom are not in any order of priority…

·         You will save money – so don’t try and save too much money

o   Don’t try and hold on to all the savings you get from not using trades. If you are saving $20,000 or more by doing the plastering yourself, then spend whatever money you need to on the tools to do the job right. There is a reason the professionals use the tools they do – it makes the job easier! And you get a shed full of great tools!

·         Trade supply companies are not used to dealing with you – so be gentle.

o   They don’t know that they need your business, and most are not used to thinking about what you as a customer might want. Remember – you will be spending a significant amount of money with them, so make them earn it. There are plenty of other options! Most companies will just take your order, and won’t help – don’t let them get away with it (wish I had known this six years ago!).

·         Time/quality of work

o   For many of the jobs you might look at, the difference between you and a trade professional is time. You can get the same finish, but you will take longer, and you need to be prepared for a couple of do-overs! As my plaster supplier told me – put the mud on, sand it and take a look. If you are not happy, put more mud on and sand again. Mud is cheap.

·         There is nothing you can’t do

o   Nothing. You tube is great for this. When you see something being demonstrated, you can see how much you can genuinely have a crack at yourself. But give yourself time and the right tools so you stand a fighting chance!

·         Everyone needs a job – including the little people in the house

o   When we started, MacK was a baby, Hugo was in the future, and Jane spent a lot of time kid wrangling while I worked with our builder brothers (and we never lose sight of how lucky we were to have their help). Jane is now our in house welder, and the boys help out in lots of little ways. Particularly when we render, they will have the opportunity to get their hands dirty. At the end of the day, everybody is invested in this place, and we can all look back in years to come and say “We did this!”

·         Enjoy the process – take some time just to sit

o   There are times when you have to put away the “ambitious build schedule” and enjoy what you have. We have had movie nights in the house with open walls, and celebrated Jane’s 41st birthday with no ceilings (over a very hot Summer). Likewise, we have had weekends where we planned work and spent it in a hammock. Those restful times are important if you are to maintain a love for the project, both during and after the build.

·         Cramps

o   The physical work will be new to you, particularly if you are a weekend warrior. Sleeping on the floor is OK – until you try to stand in the middle of the night and cramp up. Get a bed. The work is hard, and you deserve proper rest.

·         It will take a long time.

o   Yup. You have to be prepared to maintain your enthusiasm for much longer than you probably thought. But there is an end, and you will see progress. And when you do, you need to celebrate. Likewise, there will be periods where you bust yourself, and not see anything for your work.

·         String lines are important.

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